tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.comments2023-05-30T10:08:06.523+01:00"Coming out" as a bisexual BangladeshiTraveller_23http://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-69351289785322339842021-11-28T10:19:27.368+00:002021-11-28T10:19:27.368+00:00Your details pleaseYour details pleaseAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10421679630154942997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-80902085806995687882018-03-26T16:27:15.877+01:002018-03-26T16:27:15.877+01:00Hi there! I am Shuvro. I, bisexually, am a nude w...Hi there! I am Shuvro. I, bisexually, am a nude wrestler from Bangladesh here to meet fun and easy going guy to have safe nude wrestling matches with. I like any kind of nude/naked combat sports between 2 same sized & aged Women(F vs F) or between 2 same sized & aged Men(M vs M) or 2 same sized & aged Couples(Couple vs Couple).Bangladeshi Nude Wrestlerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10695303604635466391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-74797088931727898632016-04-10T08:53:46.597+01:002016-04-10T08:53:46.597+01:00Homosexuality is not approved in islam.Homosexuality is not approved in islam.Software Companyhttp://abhworld.info/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-50377399753617414662016-02-11T06:55:20.901+00:002016-02-11T06:55:20.901+00:00are you in Bangladesh?? can you sex with me??are you in Bangladesh?? can you sex with me??Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09680831567162965980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-49133519071923800112014-10-09T22:46:41.720+01:002014-10-09T22:46:41.720+01:00Yes! We really need a bigger presence and visibili...Yes! We really need a bigger presence and visibility, even if just online. Looking forward to what you will be writing - I'm sure your experiences will have been different from mine and the more variety out there the better. If you link it to me eventually I'll share it out with others!Traveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-66290355185052725432014-10-08T08:01:53.570+01:002014-10-08T08:01:53.570+01:00Your blog has inspired me to join you in your effo...Your blog has inspired me to join you in your efforts. Will start working on my blog right away. And of course, following you. Way to go bro. Best Wishes.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02419483449799327692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-1715384635237288032013-09-01T22:50:50.155+01:002013-09-01T22:50:50.155+01:00There should be a reply winging its way to your ac...There should be a reply winging its way to your account right now :)Traveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-19561235131637508202013-08-24T10:07:03.929+01:002013-08-24T10:07:03.929+01:00Hi there! I run a website called The Re|view (http...Hi there! I run a website called The Re|view (http://the-re-view.org) and would love to re-publish some of your articles if you would be interested, including links about to your site. We only launched recently, but our readership is growing fairly quickly and I would really like people to be able to read your perspective. I like the series of articles about coming to terms with your bisexuality, but I'll happily accept any article you choose.<br />If you are interseted or have any questions just drop me a line - editor@the-re-view.org<br /><br />Cecilia xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-88218201525178350682013-07-26T16:40:11.735+01:002013-07-26T16:40:11.735+01:00Thank you for the kind words :)Thank you for the kind words :)Traveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-25790163879063116662013-07-25T10:52:17.708+01:002013-07-25T10:52:17.708+01:00Excellent writeup, thanks for sharing :)Excellent writeup, thanks for sharing :)Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11050857281962904047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-32141173547037038712013-07-22T21:17:53.025+01:002013-07-22T21:17:53.025+01:00Hi there - this is the only comment I've gotte...Hi there - this is the only comment I've gotten a notification about. I'm sorry but I don't know what happened. Please do try again if you get a chance, perhaps break it up into a few?Traveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-41684819878724513712013-07-22T08:49:40.450+01:002013-07-22T08:49:40.450+01:00I did post a quite long comment but it appeared to...I did post a quite long comment but it appeared to be deleted. Do you want me to try again?The Authorshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07030791919549583999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-13429311952103078012013-02-18T23:34:01.920+00:002013-02-18T23:34:01.920+00:00Her Response:
You can easily quantify that proba...Her Response: <br /><br />You can easily quantify that probability anytime you go out with a group of people. Ask a trusted straight friend how many people they are attracted to and see if you're attracted to more or less.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-44464577678967761812013-02-18T21:27:57.697+00:002013-02-18T21:27:57.697+00:00That's the problem - how do you quantify that ...That's the problem - how do you quantify that probability? People tend to err on the side of more probable, with the obvious negative consequences.<br /><br />I'm not saying you didn't make valid points. I'm just showing you what it looks like from the other side, and why your points may not be entirely correct. Traveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-55757442672593045722013-02-18T04:00:29.401+00:002013-02-18T04:00:29.401+00:00Her response:
Okay, seriously, I think you need t...Her response:<br /><br />Okay, seriously, I think you need to tone down the victimized attitude and accept that I made valid points too. Also, for the record I don't think bisexuals are greedy and want everything. <br /><br />I'm talking about probability here. If you're bisexual and hanging out with a bunch of people (guys and girls), the probability is that you're going to like more people than I am as a straight woman because you're attracted to both sexes. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-37698811510453818232013-02-14T23:09:46.892+00:002013-02-14T23:09:46.892+00:00Checked - this is in fact Her response.
Why would...Checked - this is in fact Her response.<br /><br />Why would the fact that one partner is bisexual imply they would be attracted to "more" people? They would just possibly be attracted to people of "different" sexes. "Different" sexes does not imply "more" people. The idea they would somehow be attracted to twice the number people goes back to the age-old misconception that bisexuals are greedy and want everything. <br /><br />So while it may boil down to compatibility with bisexuality taking a prominent role, ultimately the assumptions being made would still be rooted specifically in a misunderstanding of what bisexuality is.Traveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-84151889858099597362013-02-10T00:53:37.573+00:002013-02-10T00:53:37.573+00:00This is Her response:
I think in the long term i...This is Her response: <br /><br />I think in the long term it's indicative of something wrong in the relationship but in the short term, as in the initial dating stage, I think bisexuality understandably plays a greater role in determining the dynamics. <br /><br />When you just start dating someone, that's when you're just getting to know them and there's a risk that it won't work out due to a variety of factors, such as the possibility that they might be more attracted to someone else. This is definitely an issue in straight dating situations and I would think more so in bisexual dating situations where you're more likely to question the number of other people your partner may be attracted to. <br /><br />Therefore, I imagine it's harder for a couple, where one individual is bisexual, to make the leap from a dating to relationship stage. This is not to say that the road is harder solely because of the bisexuality factor; for example, the other partner could have more than your average trust issues which might blow the situation out of proportion. It ultimately boils down to an issue of compatibility, but one in which bisexuality takes a somewhat prominent role. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-52543172649475913872013-02-03T18:41:48.461+00:002013-02-03T18:41:48.461+00:00I would say it's more indicative of something ...I would say it's more indicative of something else that's wrong with the relationship. I offered her that hypothetical scenario because it was one I felt bisexual men encounter a lot when dating. <br /><br />IMO most straight women aren't used to the idea of a bisexual man. Consequently there's a certain "weirdness factor" to the idea that their boyfriends/husbands/partners could wander into the arms of another man, and this puts them off.<br /><br />This is not the only type of misconception I've encountered, as you can probably guess. Traveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-20921110594348667032013-02-03T16:28:27.698+00:002013-02-03T16:28:27.698+00:00"For instance, when he visited a few months a..."For instance, when he visited a few months after telling me he was bisexual, he asked if I would ever date a bisexual guy. I responded with an instant yes without considering the cons until my best friend offered one: wouldn’t I feel more threatened because there was the possibility of my boyfriend wandering off into the arms of another man or woman?"<br /><br />My question to you both (and b/c I've been asked something similar and had the same 'risk' outlined to me): why is the possibility of the partner wandering into the arms of someone else higher if the partner in question is of a different sexual orientation? If that happens, isn't that more indicative of something at fault with the relationship itself rather than being a direct result of the bisexuality of the partner?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-23072705269495492072012-12-28T01:52:00.246+00:002012-12-28T01:52:00.246+00:00Nah, you're definitely not alone :) I'm at...Nah, you're definitely not alone :) I'm attracted to girls too, but it kind of took a back seat before when I was worrying about being attracted to men!Traveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-85912504020523631962012-12-27T10:25:04.343+00:002012-12-27T10:25:04.343+00:00But are you attracted to girls too? or just the ga...But are you attracted to girls too? or just the gay men?Anika Bhuiyanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05295065871298426407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-82535899381998988712012-12-27T10:23:18.375+00:002012-12-27T10:23:18.375+00:00:) Great to know I am not alone :):) Great to know I am not alone :)Anika Bhuiyanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05295065871298426407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-30574425117816019582012-08-02T17:06:33.822+01:002012-08-02T17:06:33.822+01:00Lol i totally agree with you there bro, Allah gav...Lol i totally agree with you there bro, Allah gave us a brain to use. I dont know about others or what people say is right, But I personally believe, Allah is the kindest of all so he wouldnt banish us to hell forever just for the 'crime' of loving another person, no matter the gender.Owlizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07460617456502988883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-19957078753347742572012-08-02T15:30:16.609+01:002012-08-02T15:30:16.609+01:00There are so many things you say that I recognise....There are so many things you say that I recognise. Like I also used to think I'd take this to my grave...and I get the impression that my parents will refuse to process this too. To be a bit more clear - they'll just go it's unnatural, dirty etc. etc. without considering that you can have a loving, fulfilling relationship with someone from the same sex, if that is how it turns out for me. I also wonder if I'm a bit luckier than you that way - there's a chance I'll end up with a woman and everything will just be easier then.<br /><br />I plan to tell a pretty religious cousin of mine too (less religious than your sister though), and I'll post that experience definitely :) I'm glad your friends and your sister are there for you - they'll likely be your support system if anything goes wrong, you need to come out to the parents and so on. Of course, we the people of the Internets are here too if you wanna talk! :P <br /><br />What country do you live in, can I ask? Of course I understand if you don't want to be specific. But I can click on your name/see you Google+ profile pic...so aren't you a bit worried someone will find this post? Just thought I'd give you a heads up on that :S<br /><br />But thank you for reading :) Good luck to you too, especially with A levels and university. It's important to get those done properly. Great loves will come again. Well I'm still waiting for my 2nd chance but I'm a firm believer in it happening! :PTraveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5538455386155037174.post-2922988352537387492012-08-02T15:14:02.611+01:002012-08-02T15:14:02.611+01:00After writing my first post, publishing and viewin...After writing my first post, publishing and viewing the page I was like o_O if that's how long it is no one's gonna read it all! So I'm glad you did :)<br /><br />I'm also glad your brother was there for you - I have a younger sibling who didn't even flinch when I told them. Young kids these days :P But younger means too young for me to ask for support. But I know that if I tell my parents and they cut their ties with me, I'll still have some family left!<br /><br />I don't know too much about the Quran - and I don't trust other people's interpretations and translations to be frank, where so much meaning can be lost. I personally feel that we should employ our own sense of right and wrong along with Islam. I mean Allah did give us a brain to use right? :P<br /><br />I've never approached many Muslims (who aren't close friends already) and talked to them in detail about homosexuality, but maybe I'll try. There's a UK based Muslim public speaker on Twitter who asserts that the overarching sin of the people of Lut was the total corruption of society, not homosexuality as such (@MoAnsar - although it'll be a huge pain to find those tweets as they were a few weeks back). Furthermore, people argue that Lut was about male homosexual rape/lust, not love and marriage. Aaand finally, some people talk about how the wording of the nikah itself doesn't mention gender. But I don't know much about any of this personally - but it leads me to believe things aren't set in stone as far as Islam is concerned, it's just that people always approach the issue in a prejudiced manner *rolls eyes*Traveller_23https://www.blogger.com/profile/08397215586469652072noreply@blogger.com